Thursday, October 31, 2013


Happy Halloween

Sample peanut costume

Today is Halloween and it's making me think about what Halloween will be like next year with a kid.  Lucas says taking his kid trick or treating will make him feel old.  I'm more excited about experiencing it.  I've never taken anyone trick or treating before.  Plus we get to pick out the costume.  I'm thinking it's going to be a peanut cause it amuses me.  Lucas for sure will probably veto it and try to get out of paying for costumes and dressing up.  We shall see what happens.

Wednesday, October 30, 2013


Throwback Thursday Thought

When I was younger, I used to wish that all my friends lived on my street.  Imagine all the great times you could have if everyone lived close and you could see each other all the time.

I had this thought again yesterday after lunch with my stepbro (inside joke) Laurel and her daughter London.  They live in Pearland which from our new house would be close to an hour's drive.  We've already talked about doing sleepovers and meeting up especially when Speck is born, but it would be so much easier if they lived closer.  I'm still hoping they move :) 

Tuesday, October 29, 2013


Excited Grandpa Clark

Jean's Dad has officially started bragging to the church.  This was on his weekly email that he sends to the church members.

There is one other thing I am looking forward to this month. Ginger and I fly out to Houston for Thanksgiving with our daughter and son-in-law. That alone is enough for high expectation, but the added bonus is seeing my daughter who is pregnant with my first grandchild! He or she is due tax day. I suppose I had better get my taxes done early next year. 
Expecting,
Grandpa Clark

16 Weeks

Get ready for a growth spurt. In the next few weeks, your baby will double his weight and add inches to his length. Right now, he's about the size of an avocado: 4 1/2 inches long (head to rump) and 3 1/2 ounces. His legs are much more developed, his head is more erect than it has been, and his eyes have moved closer to the front of his head. His ears are close to their final position, too. The patterning of his scalp has begun, though his locks aren't recognizable yet. He's even started growing toenails. And there's a lot happening inside as well. For example, his heart is now pumping about 25 quarts of blood each day, and this amount will continue to increase as your baby continues to develop.

from babycenter

Wednesday, October 23, 2013


Florida and Walker's Baptism

October 19-21, we went to Florida.  We drove out on Friday afternoon and arrived early Saturday morning.  Lucas was very sweet and did most of the driving so I could sleep.

Saturday I had lunch with Nikki.  It was so nice to talk to her in person and tell her everything that has been going on.  She also helped calm my preggo fears.  Afterwards, I met Lucas at Heather's house.  Her "puppies" are huge and very energetic.  I was very impressed by her gardening skills and seeing the vegetables grow.  Blake has a lot of energy and wore Lucas and Peanut out.

Walker Thomas Self
We drove over to Penney Farms to have dinner with my grandparents.  It was nice to see them and catch up.  I learned a lot about Grammy's past.  After dinner, we went back to their place, where they gave us some rugs as a house warming gift, and a nice picture for the baby's room.  Their dog Bo is sweet and protective and thankfully much less energetic then I would have thought for a 1 year old.

Leaving their place we went to Erica and Jud's, which was only about 30 mins away.  Their son Walker is adorable and I love him already.


Jean with Walker
Sunday was the baptism.  Lucas and I feel honored to have been chosen as Godparents, we only wish we lived closer so we could see him more.  I guess that is what Skype is for!  The baptism went well and Walker slept through the whole thing.  After pictures, we went back to the house.  It was nice to be with family and just relax.

Monday everyone, including the dogs, went to a park to take a walk.  It was a nice day to be outside.  We had a late lunch and played some games before getting on the road by 7pm.  We stopped at a rest stop in Mississippi so Lucas could sleep.  We got home at 11am on Tuesday morning.  Spent the rest of the day recovering and doing stuff around the house.

Tuesday, October 22, 2013


15 Weeks

Your growing baby now measures about 4 inches long, crown to rump, and weighs in at about 2 1/2 ounces (about the size of an apple). She's busy moving amniotic fluid through her nose and upper respiratory tract, which helps the primitive air sacs in her lungs begin to develop. Her legs are growing longer than her arms now, and she can move all of her joints and limbs. Although her eyelids are still fused shut, she can sense light. If you shine a flashlight at your tummy, for instance, she's likely to move away from the beam. There's not much for your baby to taste at this point, but she is forming taste buds. Finally, if you have an ultrasound this week, you may be able to find out whether your baby's a boy or a girl! (Don't be too disappointed if it remains a mystery, though. Nailing down your baby's sex depends on the clarity of the picture and on your baby's position. He or she may be modestly curled up or turned in such a way as to "hide the goods.")

from babycenter

Tuesday, October 15, 2013


14 Weeks

This week's big developments: Your baby can now squint, frown, grimace, pee, and possibly suck his thumb! Thanks to brain impulses, his facial muscles are getting a workout as his tiny features form one expression after another. His kidneys are producing urine, which he releases into the amniotic fluid around him — a process he'll keep up until birth. He can grasp, too, and if you're having an ultrasound now, you may even catch him sucking his thumb.

In other news: Your baby's stretching out. From head to bottom, he measures 3 1/2 inches — about the size of a lemon — and he weighs 1 1/2 ounces. His body's growing faster than his head, which now sits upon a more distinct neck. By the end of this week, his arms will have grown to a length that's in proportion to the rest of his body. (His legs still have some lengthening to do.) He's starting to develop an ultra-fine, downy covering of hair, called lanugo, all over his body. Your baby's liver starts making bile this week — a sign that it's doing its job right — and his spleen starts helping in the production of red blood cells. Though you can't feel his tiny punches and kicks yet, your little pugilist's hands and feet (which now measure about 1/2 inch long) are more flexible and active.

from babycenter

Saturday, October 12, 2013


Telling the World



Today we announced to the world, through facebook, that we are expecting.  
Baby already has quite a fan club it appears.

Friday, October 11, 2013


Telling the Grandparents

Lucas's grandparents were happy to learn that we were expecting. Speck will likely be great grand child #8.

Jean's grandparents win the award for weirdest question asked.  Most people when we tell them, ask when it's due or even is this a Turkish baby.  Jean's grandparents asked when it happened and actually wanted to know.  Awkward, but for the record it was early July.  But they are very excited and asked that we bring the sonogram photos when we visit them in October.

Thursday, October 10, 2013


Joining the ranks

Wednesday, I officially felt like I had joined the ranks of pregnant women.  I got sick.  It was terrible and I hope never to have to relive that again. 

The only upside was that it prompted me to take a day off.  It was nice to relax and just watch movies all day. 

Tuesday, October 8, 2013


13 Weeks

Fingerprints have formed on your baby's tiny fingertips, her veins and organs are clearly visible through her still-thin skin, and her body is starting to catch up with her head — which makes up just a third of her body size now. If you're having a girl, she now has more than 2 million eggs in her ovaries. Your baby is almost 3 inches long (about the size of a pea pod) and weighs nearly an ounce.
from Babycenter

Monday, October 7, 2013


Bestie makes it better

Just want to say how thankful I am for my bestie, Nikki.  We have been friends since 1999 and I couldn't imagine my life without her.  I was having an emotional day today and she was able to pick me right up, even though she's miles away in Florida.

Things she says to make it all better:

"Love my BESTEST and miss her like crazy! I don't know where I would be (probably lost or kidnapped in NOLA somewhere) or how I would have made it out alive sometimes without her!"

"I'm so excited to finally be a pseudoaunt!!! I'm hoping for a boy first! Guess I should start building up some frequent flyer miles and/or looking for a house in Houston. "

I love you Nikki and couldn't imagine my life without you!

So that's what you look like


Today was an exciting doctor's visit, the first ultrasound!  It was really neat to see Speck moving all around.  The technician assured us that all hands and feet were accounted for.  The next ultrasound is in December, when we find out what we are having!

Wednesday, October 2, 2013


The house

Back in March, we decided to sell our house and build one in Spring in preparation for the Exxon campus move.  In May we put our house on the market and sold it in 3 days! Since then we have been living in a 750 sq ft apartment within walking distance to Lucas's work and about a 10 min drive from Jean's job.  The commute has been nice but we miss the space and Peanut definitely misses having a backyard.

Our new house will (hopefully) be done in November just in time to have Jean's parents, sister, and grandparents come for Thanksgiving.  Its going to be a hectic weekend and we pray it works out.

Pregnancy so far

Pregnancy so far isn't what I thought it would be like.  You always hear about people throwing up every day, being tired, and eating everything.  So far, that hasn't been my experience. 

I've been nauseous a lot but haven't had to act on it.  And it's not in the mornings for me.  It's around 11am, 2pm, and sometimes around dinner time.  Thank God for ginger ale, the only thing that helps.  It's very annoying and having pugs crawling on me does not help.

I'm not tired, I'm exhausted all day every day.  All I want to do is sleep or lie down on the couch and not move.  I've gone to bed at 8pm and woken up at 7am and still I'm tired.  It's a lot of effort to work and not sleep on the job.

Food, not really feeling it.  I can recall one time in the past two months that I've been hungry.  I skip lunch a lot because I'm not hungry.  I know I'm supposed to be feeding the baby and what not but why eat if I'm not hungry?  I've been told that the hunger comes later in the 2nd trimester, which I'm almost to! 

Another annoying side effect is pregnancy brain.  I'm told this is different for everyone.  For me it's forgetfulness and not being able to focus on things.  I forgot to start the dishwasher two days in a row and each time would come home to unload it.  Tasks at work, I need to double check to make sure pictures are uploaded correctly and names are typed right.  The focus really hurts during conversations.  I will just blank for minutes at a type thinking about nothing and then come back and realize people are still talking.  I'm normally a very good listener so this is hard for me.

Moral of the post, is that everyone's experiences are different so don't expect to be the norm!